How to Handle Dry Spells

This article is going to help you deal with dry spells and how to go around them and not let you lose your mental stability (figuratively) when you encounter one. If you’ve been watching our YT, reading my guides and taking the right action for your dating life, then you’re probably at least decently successful…

Andrew Tate’s 7 Rules For Success in Dating and Life

If you’ve been on the internet for less than a year, and have also been seduced by the manosphere, chances are you’ve heard about Andrew Tate and come across 100’s of his videos. Some motivational, some tacky, some straight up controversial. But overall, I think he sends a positive message to young men without a…

Beginners Guide to Getting Laid on Tinder in 2025

How to get laid on Tinder? The topic I’m going to cover today could very well be titled as “Getting laid for dummies”. When there’s so much information out there about different suggestions on how to go about texting girls, you can end up with information fatigue. Then when it matters, you end up thinking…

The 5 WORST Dating Tips for Men for 2024

The key to growing as a man, leveling up your game, and ultimately improving your results with women is being able to discern which advice is good and which advice is bad. Because the bad advice can make it literally 10x harder to achieve the growth you want. When I started off in game, I…

How to Make a Woman Become Obsessed With You

Today’s topic is a bit advanced. But if you follow our content and put in the work, you can become advanced – to the point where pussy comes in fairly easy, with you having to work too hard for it. And once you get to that point, you still have opportunity to improve. One of…

5 Powerful Conversation Topics that Lead to Sex

We are big believers that you need to have sex with the girl as soon as you can because sex is the ultimate form of investment from the girl. When girls have sex with a guy, they backwards rationalize that they liked the guy. The fuck ups (if any) during your interaction will be highly…

How To Take Better Tinder Pictures

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Get Better Tinder Pictures The following is a guest post by Joe Buchoff. Joe wrote this guest post for Alex and Playing with Fire to share the biggest thing he’s learned in his time as a professional dating profile photographer. He’s helped over 100 guys get more matches and more dates by taking better photos…

Negging vs. Teasing (and Why One is Almost Always Better)

If you’re coming from one of our competitors, or maybe just reading online a bit, you may have come across the concept of “negging.” In fact, you might have even seen videos or memes where a guy is trying to tease a girl on Tinder, and she calls it out as negging. But do you…

5 ESSENTIAL Mindsets for Meeting & Approaching Women

A question I get asked a lot is, “Is it even worth it to approach women in this day and age of online dating?” Absolutely! Cold approach is still an extremely reliable source to getting dates/meeting women, hooking up, and building relationships. In fact, as online dating gets more competitive, I think cold approach is more…

Why You Should Never Hire a Female Dating Coach

The dating industry. It’s industry filled with hundreds of Toms, Dicks & Helens claiming he/she is a “dating coach.” So it’s important to know who to hire. Just like the fitness industry, the dating coach industry is getting saturated. There’s so much information out there that, if you’re not careful, you might end up with information…