What to Do When a Girl Flakes On Your Date

Ah! The dreaded flakes. Nobody likes when a girl flakes on you. Especially when you ran good text game, had a solid vibe, and qualified that she was up to your standards. Maybe she even promised to show up on the day of the date (and you made sure to set up a solid date).…

How to Message on Tinder After the Opener

If you’re a regular PWF reader, you are already opening girls like a beast using our guide to Tinder openers. But if you’re like a lot of guys, you might still get stuck after sending the opener, trying to figure out how to message a girl on Tinder for the next few messages, or what…

3 Key Tinder Profile Pics You Need to Get More Matches

Are you not getting the Tinder matches you’d like (or Bumble / Hinge / etc.)? Let’s talk about why. Is it because you are ugly, short, skinny, fat? No matter what you think is the answer – you are probably wrong. The majority of men fail to understand how women use online dating apps. Specifically,…

How To Get Laid On Tinder In 2025

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Getting laid on Tinder guide I’m going to bust a popular dating myth: that you need to woo a girl or even just take her out before she will sleep with you. The fact is, you can get laid on Tinder much more easily and consistently than this. At Playing with Fire, we believe in…

5 Wrong Beliefs from the Red Pill

This is a continuation of How the Red Pill Fucked Me Up (Part 1), and a guest post by Erik Villalobos Early into my “awakening” from Red Pill, I picked up a copy of the PWF Online Dating Blueprint. A friend told me to read it to distract myself from the breakup. As I read…

Best Tinder Pick Up Lines

What are the best tinder pick up lines Everyone wants a perfect Tinder pickup line that will get every girl to respond to your first message and become interested. I’m here to tell you, despite what some “gurus” or Reddit may say: that doesn’t exist. There is no magic bullet dating app pickup line. But…

How the Red Pill Fucked Me Up (Part 1)

Guest post by Erik Villalobos I’d like to talk about my experience with the Red Pill community. Exactly what is the Red Pill? Simply, it’s a community, and it’s also the concept of having a good base knowledge about intersexual dynamics between men & women. So things like dating in today’s competitive sexual marketplace, understanding…

How to Text a Girl (5 Rules Every Guy Needs to Know)

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How to text girls? This guide will show you the 5 most important rules of texting girls. While we will mention Tinder and other dating apps a lot, most of this advice will apply to every type of texting. So if you’re looking to improve your texting with girls you meet in real life, this…

5 Easiest Countries to Get Laid (According to Dating Coaches)

What are the easiest countries to get laid in? A lot of guys ask me about travel – specifically, what are the easiest countries to get laid in the world? I’m not one to tell you to travel only to meet women. Travel should be about more than just banging girls. But if you are…

How to Get Unbanned from Tinder – Complete Guide

Guide to getting unbanned from Tinder Did you have your Tinder account banned? Trying to figure out how to get it back? I’ve spent a lot of time researching and testing out what to do when you’ve been banned or shadowbanned on Tinder. In this guide, I’ll walk you through the steps of how to…