How To Get Laid?

Hey guys, obviously, a lot of you want to have sex with attractive girls, but it’s not as easy as you might think. There are certain steps you’ve got to follow if you want to consistently get laid or be able to get into a relationship with a cute girl.

That’s why today I’m going to show you 5 steps that, if followed, will make women want to have sex with you… with minimal effort.

3 Types Of Girls

But first, before we jump into the steps, I’ve got to explain an important concept. All the girls you meet will essentially fall into one of these 3 categories:

a) High Compliance – these are the girls who are just very receptive. When you ask them for their number, they give it to you. They sometimes will hint at the date themselves and be enthusiastic about meeting you. Take a look at an example of a hot Czech girl I slept with, or this big tits milf

Girls in this category will typically constitute about 10% of your matches, but they’ll be responsible for 50-70% of your lays (if you have decent text game and can capitalize on it).

b) Medium Compliance

These girls are moderately receptive. They’ll rarely hint at the date themselves, but they’re usually fairly interested when you do bring it up. They might reschedule once or stop replying at one point (so you’ll have to be a bit persistent), but generally they won’t be too difficult. Here is a good example from a Finnish lawyer I slept with or a really hot girl one of our student’s closed

Girls in this category will be about 30-40% of girls you match with and constitute 20-30% of your lays. But these might be the highest quality of girls you hook up with. Generally, they’re also more likely to be “girlfriend material.” All my girlfriends, were in this category, inclcuding my current one

c) Low Compliance

These are girls who initially respond with very short answers or don’t respond at all. Now, a girl can start out in this category and move up to “medium compliance” if your text game is good, or they might stay low compliance throughout. With these girls, you will have to be VERY persistent. Here is a good example from a hot 18 year old i slept with or this difficult romanian girl.

Girls in this category will make up about 50% of your matches, but only 10% of your lays (and that’s if you have really good text game). So unless that low-compliance girl is really hot, you’re better off not bothering with her.

Thus, you’ll primarily be going out with high and medium compliance girls.

5 Steps To Getting Laid

Note: These steps generally must be followed for optimal results. However, on occasion, 1 or 2 of them might be broken if the situation calls for it. Also, these are generally in order, but not in every situation. Certain scenarios might call for flipping two steps or alternating; you’ll understand what I mean 🙂

Step 1: Build Investment

This is a relatively straightforward one. Basically, when you match with a girl on a dating app, don’t just jump to the close, build some investment first. (For more info on this, check out this video.)

Or if you cold approach a girl, don’t immediately ask her on a date (very high rejection rate); get her emotionally invested in the conversation first. Ask some interesting questions, joke around, and flirt. Then you can ask her out.

A girl who has invested in a convo with you will be significantly more likely to say yes to the date and ultimately show up. In addition, sometimes it will require less “in-person game.” For instance, if you sext a girl beforehand, when she comes over, you might be fucking her within 5-10 minutes because all that investment is already built.

Step 2: Set Yourself Up for Success

This one should be obvious, but unfortunately for a lot of guys, it’s not. Basically, what I’m saying is make it as easy as possible for yourself to close. This means no halfway dates. No dinner dates. No dates where she only has an hour. No dates, period, unless you have a plan for where you are going to pull her.

The easiest approach is to invite her straight to your place. However, if she objects, do a bar that’s walking distance from your place. Or if there’s none, then pick one that’s the shortest drive possible. Also, have condoms! Be showered, smell good, and be ready for sex on the date.

Now there are two directions you can go in:

a) Explicit Fuck Date

This is almost always straight to the house. Furthermore, there is what I call an “explicit sex understanding.” Basically, the girl is coming over for sex. She can, of course, still change her mind if you fuck up, but for guys who have decent game, that won’t rarely happen. Here is a very blatant example of an explicit fuck date I had a while back.

b) Implicit Date

This can also be a straight-to-the-house date, but it is not explicitly outlined that she’s coming for sex. Instead, you are “splitting a bottle of wine” or something of that sort. This can also be a public date as well.

The reason I put “implicit” in the title and not just “date” is that you still need to somewhat sexualize the conversation. When you make plans, you do keep it a bit vague, but deep down inside, she should know what’s up. And if she doesn’t, then you probably didn’t show enough intent. Here is an example from a hot busty girl I had sex with.

Step 3: Build Comfort

A lot of people are confused about what this entails. It doesn’t mean share personal stories or tell her facts about you (although it can definitely include that). The best way to build comfort is with humor. If you can make a girl laugh, she’s going to instantly feel more comfortable.

In addition, if you are relaxed and comfortable, then that energy will eventually transfer to her, and she’ll be more comfortable. Conversely, if you are nervous or uptight, then the opposite is likely to happen. And girls are very good at picking up on your vibe.

Also, an important thing to add: The amount of comfort required to get laid will GREATLY vary based on the girl. Some girls will be comfortable 2 minutes after walking through your door, and some will require an hour or more. Most girls will be between 20-45 minutes.

Step 4: Build Sexual Tension (One of the most important things)

This is CRUCIAL. Sexual tension can mean the difference between her enthusiastically getting on her knees and blowing you versus her saying, “I’m not feeling the spark.” There are multiple ways to build sexual tension; some common ones are: slowing down your speech, strong eye contact, light touches, etc. For more info on sexual tension, check out the full guide on it.

How much sexual tension you need to get laid will also vary girl by girl. But generally, the more the better. If the girl doesn’t appear turned on, then chances are there’s not enough sexual tension. Also, it’s important to note that you can build some of the sexual tension over text, but not all of it. Some can only happen in person.

Step 5: Escalate Physically

This naturally blends in with sexual tension. It’s hard to say when exactly the crossover from one to the other happens, but I’d argue it’s around the time of the kiss.

Once you build a lot of sexual tension, you have to physically escalate. If you fail to do this, everything else you did will be useless. Going for the makeout is a good start; then you would generally start kissing down her body, suck on her tits, go lower, and so on. Basically, get her horny and move things towards sex.

3 Quick Tips

1. Music – Just ask what her favorite song is and put it on your laptop; that will go a long way towards building comfort.

2. Don’t Let Her Cum Before Sex – If you are fingering a girl or eating her out, don’t actually make her cum until you’re inside of her. If you do, the odds of you having sex definitely go down because the girl already “got her nut.”

3. Avoid Long Logical Discussions and Controversial Topics – A date should not be a job interview. Some logical questions are fine, but generally, I like to keep things lighthearted and flirty. In addition, avoid politics, exes, and religion. There is nothing to be gained from going down those rabbit holes.

Conclusion

If you follow the 5 steps previously mentioned, you should be able to close almost every single straight-to-the-house date and over half of your public dates.

To learn more, check out the full video version of this article or check out the full guide on how to get a girlfriend.