Tips & Guides
What Version of Tinder Should You Buy in 2021? Plus vs. Gold vs. Platinum Review
Oh, the good old days. Back in Tinder’s early days, you could consistently get results without spending a dime. But, as Tinder has become more popular, they’ve focused on monetizing the platform. Increasingly, we’ve found you have to spend money to get more Tinder matches as a man. In late 2020, Tinder announced yet another…
Read MoreWhat’s a Shit Test and How to Handle Over Text
Today, we’re going to discuss shit tests. If you haven’t heard of these before, it’s ok – I’m going to explain what they are. I’m also going to explain why women use them when it comes to screening for a potential suitor. I’ll also show where men fuck up in identifying one or confusing a…
Read MoreGetting New Girls in Bed: Women’s 4 Big Bedroom Blockers
You’ve just had a wonderful time with a girl. The flirtation’s been great. You feel a crackling connection. And of course, you cannot wait to get this girl’s clothes off. She’s back at your place, you’ve poured her a glass of wine (or water, which is actually my recommendation), and you’re ginning yourself up to…
Read MoreWhat to Do When a Girl Flakes On Your Date
Ah! The dreaded flakes. Nobody likes when a girl flakes on you. Especially when you ran good text game, had a solid vibe, and qualified that she was up to your standards. Maybe she even promised to show up on the day of the date (and you made sure to set up a solid date).…
Read MoreHow to Message on Tinder After the Opener
If you’re a regular PWF reader, you are already opening girls like a beast using our guide to Tinder openers. But if you’re like a lot of guys, you might still get stuck after sending the opener, trying to figure out how to message a girl on Tinder for the next few messages, or what…
Read More3 Key Tinder Profile Pics You Need to Get More Matches
Are you not getting the Tinder matches you’d like (or Bumble / Hinge / etc.)? Let’s talk about why. Is it because you are ugly, short, skinny, fat? No matter what you think is the answer – you are probably wrong. The majority of men fail to understand how women use online dating apps. Specifically,…
Read MoreHow To Get Laid On Tinder In 2025
Getting laid on Tinder guide I’m going to bust a popular dating myth: that you need to woo a girl or even just take her out before she will sleep with you. The fact is, you can get laid on Tinder much more easily and consistently than this. At Playing with Fire, we believe in…
Read More5 Wrong Beliefs from the Red Pill
This is a continuation of How the Red Pill Fucked Me Up (Part 1), and a guest post by Erik Villalobos Early into my “awakening” from Red Pill, I picked up a copy of the PWF Online Dating Blueprint. A friend told me to read it to distract myself from the breakup. As I read…
Read MoreBest Tinder Pick Up Lines
What are the best tinder pick up lines Everyone wants a perfect Tinder pickup line that will get every girl to respond to your first message and become interested. I’m here to tell you, despite what some “gurus” or Reddit may say: that doesn’t exist. There is no magic bullet dating app pickup line. But…
Read MoreHow the Red Pill Fucked Me Up (Part 1)
Guest post by Erik Villalobos I’d like to talk about my experience with the Red Pill community. Exactly what is the Red Pill? Simply, it’s a community, and it’s also the concept of having a good base knowledge about intersexual dynamics between men & women. So things like dating in today’s competitive sexual marketplace, understanding…
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