What Is A Shit Test? (And How To Pass It)

What is a shit test?

A “shit test” refers to behavior or comments from a woman intended to challenge or test your frame. They’re often subconscious, and done to see if you really are the man you appear to be. A more accurate term would be a congruence test.

The idea is simple. Lots of guys are hitting on the girl and putting on a front to appear more confident. By testing you, the woman can gauge your reaction. If you “pass” the shit test you shoe you are indeed authentic and high value. And if you fail the shit test, you show that you are putting on a front and are not as high value as she thought.

Some women will shit test a lot more then others. And some guys will get shit tested a lot more then other. For example, I come off as an over confident fuckboy so I get a lot of shit tests in the beginning, because the girls want to see if I am really that confident or just pretending. I don’t mind because I know once I pass the shit tests she is going to be even more attracted

How to pass a shit test?

An example of a shit test might be a girl saying “just so you know I’m not gonna fuck you” as you’re walking back to your place. The way to pass that shit test would be to either say “don’t worry, I hate sex” or “who says I’m gonna fuck you”. Basically, you’re responding with humor or flipping the frame. Most importantly you are staying calm and not getting emotionally rattled in any way

How to fail a shit test?

The way to fail it would be to take what she says seriously and start logically convincing her to have sex with you or to take what she says at face value and let it effect your game. Another way to instantly fail would be to get angry/emotional. Ironically, failing this specific shit test is the best way to make sure she doesn’t actually fuck you

Case study

In order to help you guys really understand what a shit test and how to pass it, we’re going to go through a texting example from one of our mastermind members where he gets a lot of shit tests from a bratty girl. You will see how he passes them with flying colors and ends up getting laid.

Part 1: Calm before the Storm

Takeaways:

1. A fun opener and something all guys can use who are into fitness and when they match with fitness girls
2. She does it quite subtly with “But I will give you a run for your money” when they talk about competing against each other in squats.
3. That she would have a lot of competition. He handled that well with “Save it for the pillow fights” because he softens the effect of what competition would do to him
4. They then talk about puppies and she then starts with the testing when he says “Hope your puppy doesn’t get jealous you’ve found someone new to cuddle with” (referring to himself
5. She says “But I haven’t ;)”. It’s important to realize she is just being playful here and you would need to be playful back

Part 2: It begins

Takeaways:

• She starts her shit testing storm with “My place is above yours…”. He handles it perfectly well by sexualizing there. Implying that he’s going to choke her, pin her against the wall and lift her up
• She goes even further with recommending he should pack his lunch for the day (implying that she would be tough to tame). A lot of guys would lose it here and probably unmatch because they are getting triggered by her. Wrong move! It’s quite easy to handle such girls
• He does it well playing it off and calling her out on her empty threats. She again doubles down with “In your dreams” when he shows dominance and the confidence that she is actually looking for.
• And then she starts to comply when he says “I’ve seen this act before. It’s all talk”. This demonstrates a lot of things. It shows that he isn’t worried about handling her. It also shows her that he has experience handling such girls and they are typically all talk.
• Having sexual authority and experience over girls is a great way to get her to trust you and get her to stop testing you because she knows it’s not going to work with you and she can just let go of the testing and submit to you.

Part 3: The submission and logistics

Takeaways:

1) “Show me” after he says “Enough” to how many times he has seen this behavior before. It should be quite obvious to you now that women love an experienced man. We see the instance of that here once again

2) Once she understands that you’re experienced with other women like her, she feels a lot more attracted to you.

3) He asked if she was feeling spontaneous and when she said she had to go to sleep early, he playfully teases her again with “See? You’re all talk”

4) You also notice that she doesn’t have the attitude after he handled her well. “Shh. I need my beauty sleep

5) The conversation moves over to text and as you see they end up meeting and have a great night of taming her

Conclusion:

The hottest girls can be the biggest brats. Why? Because they only want to be with the highest quality of men. That would include guys who are quite dominant and will not take her shit seriously. They will just put her in her place whenever she misbehaves. And she will purposely do that to see if you’re going to slip. So, it’s quite imperative to monitor her behavior in person.

If you’re dating someone who has the tendency to shit test you, you will always have to catch that, monitor that behavior and punish her appropriately (BDSM, paddles, handcuffs, teasing etc).

I’m sure you found that valuable ;),