How Older Men Can Attract Younger Women?
Younger women are attracted to older men way more than they admit. But older guys ruin it almost every single opportunity they get, especially when they get asked:
“So how old are you?”
If you answer like most men do, you immediately look insecure, try-hard, or just “too old.” But, if you answer the right way, you appear as the dominant and confident man, whom she’s secretly hoping you are
The truth is — age isn’t the problem. It’s the five mistakes older men make that destroy attraction. Fix these, and younger women will not only accept the age gap…they’ll prefer it.
5 Common Mistakes Older Men Make With Younger Women
1) Making the age gap a big deal – Age, at the end of the day, is just a number. However, if you believe that it is a big deal, that she’s younger than you, the girl will pick up on it and also start thinking it’s a big deal. If you wanna date younger women, you must, at your core, start to believe that there’s absolutely no big deal about an older guy, being with a younger woman
Also, a big mistake guys make is that they’ll start defending their age when asked how old they are. Never do that. If a girl asks your age, just give her the number and then ask her back. Doing anything extra is only gonna hurt your chances
Now, if “challenged” about your age (for example, she says “You’re old enough to be my dad”), don’t defend yourself either. Treat it exactly like a shit test and respond with humor. A lot of this stuff just comes down to framing. You can say “Look, if you wanna call me daddy, I’ll allow it”
Back when I was in my early 20s, I went through a milf phase, and I would commonly get the inverse age rejection. Women would say, “You’re too young for me” or some variation of that. I never got defensive, instead I would say something like “That’s true, I don’t require a bunch of viagra so if you prefer some old & decrepit man that needs to take a bunch of pills to get a wrinkly boner, then I guess I’m not your man”. It worked almost every single time
This same approach can be taken to a girl saying, “You’re too old for me”. I would say, “Yeah, I am def more mature & experienced. But if you prefer a little Gen Z boy who spends all day on his phone playing Pokémon, then I guess I’m not your man.”
Being older is not inherently good or bad; it just depends on how it’s framed. And if you convincingly frame it as a good thing, most girls are gonna think positively about it as well.
2) Playing by the old set of rules – Dating has changed a lot in the last few decades. And you need to adapt. This means you have to learn how to text. You can’t just rely on phone calls, like you did 20 years ago. You know how a lot of older people text really weird, well, don’t be one of them
There’s also no more 3-date rule either. If you have good game, you can fuck most women on the first or second date. Especially given the fact that most girls who date older men are generally likely to be more dtf anyway. Sex is the ultimate form of investment for a girl, so if you want to date a woman, one of the best ways you can ensure she goes out with you again is by sleeping with her
Also, be prepared for flakes. That wasn’t nearly as common 20 years ago, but it is now, especially with younger women. You account for that by setting up multiple dates during the same evening. I like to keep them a few hours apart. In addition, don’t do halfway dates or meet near hers. Set up the date either at your place or a bar that’s nearby. And then, don’t leave the house until she is literally on her way
Also, you don’t need to pick a girl up anymore. In fact, a lot of younger girls might ghost on you if you offer because they get creeped out by you driving your car to their house. Utilize Uber instead. And yes, I know logically it doesn’t make sense cause you still have her address.
And the last thing, I’d say, is don’t do dinner dates. I know that used to be very common, but you’re just making it harder for yourself to get laid. And as previously mentioned, that’s the single best thing you can do to ensure you get a second date
3. Looking old – It’s not about the age on your driver’s licence, but about how old you look. There are guys in their 40s who look like they are very young. And there’s also other ones that look like they’re a grandpa. Don’t be like the latter. Part of this is genetics, but a huge component is also your lifestyle. Eat healthy, go to the gym, take care of your body, use a good skin cream, etc…. There is a LOT you can do to look younger
Let’s take a look at an example. Guess which one of these two is older?
