Chapter 10 – Retaining Girls & Building Rotations

Chapter 10 – Retaining Girls & Building Rotations

Intro

1. Give Her The Ultimate Sexual Experience – This is the most important thing. If you can make a girl cum, your chances of seeing her again increase. If you can make her cum 10 times, they significantly increase. The first thing I recommend is to read the book: The Sex God Method, by Daniel Rose (Free PDF available in the PWF Mastermind Group). It will give you a very solid overview of exactly how to make girls have mind blowing orgasms. The next step is to buy the Hitachi Magic Wand Vibrator. Link here. Through regular sex & oral, I can make over 50% of girls climax the first night I spend with them. However, since I got the vibrator, that percentage has been well over 90%. I am not exaggerating, it is so strong that women will tremble & squirt all over your bed and profusely thank you afterwards. This thing will be the best $50 you will ever spend, trust me.
2. Chill Afterwards – This part is also crucial. The faster you kick her out, the more likely she is to associate you with just a random one night stand. If I like the girl and see booty call potential after sex I will shoot the shit for a while. I will almost always ask her about her other Tinder experiences and share funny stories of my own. This simultaneously communicates that you like her as a person, but have lots of other options. The idea is to show that you appreciate her as a person without trying to be romantic or chodey. I will also always fuck a girl numerous times throughout the night (if she is booty-call worthy). The second time is almost always better and you can give her even more of the ultimate sexual experience. It is absolutely not a requirement, but I have also found that if the girl spends the night, my chances of retention increase even further.
3.  After Sex Text – This part is also quite important. You want to send her some variation of “I had fun last night” text within 24 hours (if she doesn’t text you first). I personally almost always do it within 12 hours and sometimes an hour or two after she leaves. Here are some examples from girls I wanted to see again:

4. Get Second Session in ASAP – Very important. The faster you get in the second session the better. Ideally within the next three days. At this point, you don’t need to game her, just tell her you had fun and invite her over. If you look at any of my post sex- texts they are super simple. I might make a joke or two, but generally I am just sorting out the logistics and inviting her over. The second session you want to again apply all the first three rules in this chapter. This will make her even more hooked.

5. Keep the Right Frame – The right frame is that she is your friend who you fuck the shit out of. That means don’t start taking her on dates or trying to impress her. It’s not necessary & will actually confuse her into thinking you want to date her, which will ultimately lead to a clash. Instead, you should be meeting up to fuck & hang out and occasionally doing friend-like activities and maybe getting a post-orgasm bite to eat. A great one is to have her help you get other girls into threesomes. The vast majority of girls are bi. If she sees you as a lover and not a provider, she will very likely be able to be persuaded into creating a Tinder account with you and looking for other girls together. Another thing, I will typically do is have the girls join me for errands and other things I need to do, but hate doing by myself, like grocery shopping.

6. Do Not Become Needy – The fastest way to kill your budding new FWB relationship is by showing signs of neediness or possessiveness. You are a guy who will fuck other girls and you have to accept that she will also fuck other guys. Unless you are in an exclusive relationship, you are not entitled to any kind of sexual loyalty. This means don’t freak out if she is busy one night and start blowing up her phone. You got her by being a cool, non-needy guy. If you change that now and become a needy chode then you are done. That being said, you can reduce the likelihood of her having other booty-calls by giving her the ultimate sexual experience and getting her to chase.

7. See Her Once Or Twice A Week – Any more than twice a week and you start slipping down the boyfriend/girlfriend path. Any less than once a week, and you risk her “suddenly getting a boyfriend”. However, again, this is not set in stone. If you go a few weeks without seeing her while you are on vacation or have a week where you spend more time together, it is not a big deal. This is more of a guideline.