How To Eat A Girl Out (Ultimate Guide)

Guide to eating a girl out

Being able to eat a girl out properly is a sexual super power. If you can do it well, girls are not only gonna come back for more (even if your penis isn’t big), but they will also rave about you to their friends. This is because the vast majority of men have no idea how to go down on a girl, but you will after reading this guide

There’s a lot of confusion out there about which pussy-eating advice you can actually trust. Most of it isn’t based on real facts — or even real experience. So in this post, I’m cutting through the noise and giving you a step-by-step guide to delivering the kind of orgasms most women have never truly experienced.

Common myths about eating pussy

So there are a handful of myths or misbeliefs about performing oral sex on a woman. Let’s break them down one-by-one and explain why they’re wrong.

1. Pussy eating is subservient – Yes, there are a lot of guys who believe this nonsense. Wanting to pleasure a woman is not subservient. It’s quite the opposite actually. It’s dominant since you’re in charge of her pleasure and not supplicating to please her to keep coming back. Your focus should be to get the girl to enjoy her time with you and as a results she’s going to want to keep coming back.
2. Pussy smells like fish: Although I myself have encountered some smelly pussies (on rare occasions) in the past, it never smells like fish. At first I was weirded out by the smell (limiting belief from society influence), but you get used to it if you tell yourself it’s amazing. I’ve eaten out some amazing pussies and would not hesitate to do so again.
3. You just need to lick the clit: This is not always true. Sometimes direct clit contact can feel way too intense, especially early on. A lot of women love stimulation around the clit first — like the inner labia and even deeper teasing moves before zeroing in.

How to eat pussy like a champ

Alright, let’s get into the good stuff. In general, after a good pussy-eating session, women are usually at their horniest — dripping wet, eager, and way more submissive.

Here’s the thing: 90% of dudes are straight-up trash in bed and selfish as hell. (Yeah, I pulled that number out of thin air — but judging by how many women complain about their sex lives, it feels pretty damn accurate.) If you take the time to give her real oral pleasure, you’re going to stand out hard — and she’s going to get hooked. It’s one of the best ways to keep her coming back for more.

Not sure where to even start when it comes to eating pussy? Or just not confident you’re killing it yet? Don’t sweat it. Stick to this guide, and you’ll be good.

So, above is a vagina. The clit is the area which looks like a hood. The hood will be different for every girls, so keep that it will not always look exactly like this. So too will be the sensitivity of her clit. With that out of the way, here are the general steps to follow

Step 1: Set the Stage

Usually I start with a light massage during which I flip her onto her back. If we’re skipping the massage and going straight for it, I pull off her pants and start kissing all over her legs, moving back and forth, teasing closer each time. Building anticipation is non-negotiable.

Step 2: Breathe

Panties on or off — doesn’t matter. I slowly breathe over her pussy, locking eyes with her while doing it. I repeat this three times, really dragging it out. She’ll start instinctively pushing her hips toward me, desperate for more. Tension through the roof.

Step 3: Tease her more

I start kissing around the pussy — working the soft, plush skin outside the outer lips. No tongue yet. I begin far away, slowly getting closer, sometimes pulling back just to mess with her mind. Meanwhile, I spread her legs wider, which sets the stage and establishes dominance

I keep kissing all around the labia, still without using my tongue. When her breathing gets heavier and more erratic, I move in and kiss right over the clit — a soft tease, nothing more.

Step 4: Bring out the tongue

Now, I bring out the tongue. I lick everywhere — the labia, folds, and everywhere except the clit. This keeps her on the edge of madness, dripping wet and begging silently for that clit contact.

Step 5: Tongue fucking

Next, I move down to the entrance of her vagina. I slowly start tongue-fucking her — soft at first, gradually picking up the pace. While doing this, I open her legs even wider, letting her know she’s completely under my control.

Step 6: Find the clit

Finally, it’s time for the clit. Big or small, it doesn’t matter — just find the hood covering it. That’s your target. I use my tongue to trace shapes around the clit — triangles, circles, slow up-and-down strokes. Switching patterns scrambles her brain in the best way.

Golden rule: Never bite the clit. It’s the fastest way to kill the mood

Step 7: The finish

Now it’s time to finish her. I use two fingers from my left hand to pinch the skin just above her clit and pull it back gently. This exposes the most sensitive part. Here, I vary my tongue speed and direction constantly — no rhythm for her to “get used to.” Keep her emotions in chaos until she breaks.

Step 8: Add Fingers

While working her clit, I slide two fingers from my right hand inside her pussy. I curl them with a “come hither” motion — soft and deep. Don’t overdo this though. And definitely make sure you cut your fingernails before trying

Step 9: The orgasm

With all these techniques layered together, the orgasm is inevitable. For some girls it might take 2 minutes and for others half an hour. I’ve seen both, but if you follow the prior instructions it is going to happen. Most of the time it will be very obvious when she cums. Remember though, afterwards her clit is crazy sensitive — so ease off and shift your focus back to her entrance.

Step 10: The finale

Afterwards, climb up, kiss her deeply, and tease her with your dick. At that point, she’s already yours. This isn’t just sex anymore — it’s an experience she’ll remember every time she thinks about you.

Things to keep in mind when eating pussy

A) Hygiene is a Must: Brush your teeth. Trim and smooth your nails. Keep your beard neat if you have one. Take a damn shower. Set the mood with a clean room and maybe some candles. And seriously — no teeth unless you know she’s into it (rare).

B) Reassurance can be necessary – Some women are self-conscious about how they look, taste, or smell. Make sure she knows you’re loving it — moan, praise her taste, and stay locked in. Confidence from you makes her relax and get even wetter.

C) Control the Spit – Don’t drown her in saliva. If it starts pooling, slurp it back up or reposition her. Keep it wet — not sloppy.

D) Hack for erectile disfunction– Pussy eating is a cheat code if you struggle with ED or quick finishes. Alternate between fucking and eating her out — it resets the pace and keeps both of you locked in longer. It’s one of my go-to moves now when i get too excited

Conclusion

The reason we post these guides is that as a better man, you should strive to be as good as possible at sex. Giving a woman a complete sexual experience includes lots of foreplay. It makes the overall sex more memorable and unique for her, especially since most guys are eager to just shove their cock inside of her.

Research shows that only about 18% of women orgasm during first-time sex with a new partner (link to study here). Thus if you can give her a great sexual experience, you greatly increase the chances you’ll see her again. Especially if you can make her cum several times. Or even once for that matter.