3 Texts That Make Her Chase You
The texts that make her chase you
In this guide, we’re going to show you 3 texts that will make her chase you. Firstly, though, is it necessary to get a girl to chase? Yes and no. When a girl chases you, she is much more likely to be compliant and much less likely to flake. However, if you can’t get a girl to chase, don’t be discouraged, it’s not the end-all be-all
Now, what are the fundamentals of getting a girl to chase? It’s pretty simple when you think about it:
1) Value: This means you have desirable characteristics or have something that she wants in her life. For example, a good sexual experience is quite rare for a woman to have. Or a cool lifestyle that you may have. Girls chase desperately when it’s something that’s not quite common, and she really wants to attain it.
2) Scarcity: You or what you offer needs to be in low supply. If there are a million guys messaging her who are the same as you, then she has no reason to chase. This scarcity can be real or just something she believes (due to good game on your part)
3) Intrigue: You can have value and be in short supply, but if you are overinvesting in the convo, she is unlikely to chase. Instead, you want to create room for mystery and play it cool. Create space for the girl to pursue you
3 Texts That Will Make Her Chase
Now that you understand the foundation of what causes a girl to chase, we can get into specific texts that I’ve found to be particularly effective. It is important to understand that it will typically take more than one text to really get a girl chasing, but these are a great start
1) Text #1: “Just finished a big workout, looking nice & fit for our date”
This is a text I use all the time when a girl asks me how I’m doing or what I’m up to. And if she doesn’t, you can prompt her by asking about her day, she is gonna follow up her answer by asking about you, which is when you can drop this message
The reason this text works well is because it displays humor (which is a very attractive trait) and shows you have balls (also attractive). Let’s take a look at an example of this text in action:
This example illustrates exactly what I was describing earlier. I ask about her day, and then she asks me about mine, which allows me to bust out this text. You can see she definitely starts chasing a bit more afterwards by double texting me and essentially asking if I would go on a date with her that same night.
2) Text #2: “I like travel, photography, various kinky activities, etc….Just missing a little (her name) in my life”
This text you would use after the girl asks you something like “what do you do for fun” or “tell me about yourself”. As mentioned previously, you can bait her into asking, just by asking her that same question first.
This text works well for two reasons. First, the “various kinky activities” line builds intrigue. The girl starts wondering “damn, what are they?” and as long as you don’t ruin all the mystery too fast, she will chase a bit. In addition, the last part of this text shows that you have a good sense of humor and that you’re not afraid to ask her out (unlike most guys). Here is an example:
As you can see, this one text definitely gets her chasing. In addition to what I previously mentioned, tt also helps that nearly all the activities I mentioned are ones that the girl is very likely to find appealing. The girl thinks, “oh my god, we have so much in common,” and that increases your perceived value, which causes her to chase
3) Text #3: “I genuinely didn’t take you for the flaky type”
This is what’s known as a “takeaway text” and would be used when the girl has repeatedly been non-responsive or keeps flaking. But, how does that cause her to chase? It’s simple, no girl wants to be known as the “flaky type,” and so a lot of girls, after getting this text, will want to prove to you that they’re not flaky. This will often cause them to chase.
In addition, by “calling the girl out” you show you have boundaries, which will raise your perceived value. Here is an example:
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The girl goes from not responding to my date offer to triple texting. This is a two-punch combo, though. Firs,t after getting the flaky type text, she starts trying to tell/prove that she’s not flaky, which causes her to chase a bit. Afterwards, I respond with another great text, which is sexual, yet funny. She continues to chase even further by saying, “If you give me the opportunity…”
Conclusion:
To get a girl to chase you, follow the underlying principles mentioned in this guide. And feel free to steal these 3 texts that will further make her chase. To see a more detailed example of getting a girl to chase, check out the video example below. Or go here to learn about how to get laid in 2025
