Foreplay and Arousing Women: Part 3 - Eating pussy

We’ve spent a bit of time talking about the ultimate foreplay techniques, namely nipple stimulation and massages. I hope by now you’ve implemented some of these into your sex arsenal. If you have, you’ve probably seen a huge level up in your sex life.

Now, I’m back at it again with the foreplay techniques. This time, I’m bringing out the single most important skill for you to learn, to get your woman dripping wet before the deed happens. And that’s eating pussy. As I’ve already mentioned in my past posts, and you should never forget, women get turned on like a knob and men get turned on like a switch. In the spirit of build up, today I’m going to go through my specific way of going about eating pussy – but first, I’ll break down myths about pussy eating.

There’s a lot of confusion about what guides to follow when it comes to pussy eating. A lot of information out there is not based on facts or even experience. So in this post, I’ll go through them all and give you a step by step guide to providing those orgasms women never truly experienced

Myths About Performing Cunnulingus / Oral on a Woman

So there are a handful of myths or misbeliefs about performing oral sex on a woman. Let’s break them down one-by-one and explain why they’re wrong.

Pussy eating is subservient: I used to think exactly this way and NO, absolutely not. Wanting to pleasure a woman is not subservient. It’s quite the opposite actually. It’s dominant since you’re in charge of her pleasure and not supplicating to please her to keep coming back. Your focus should be to get the girl to enjoy her time with you and as a results she’s going to want to keep coming back.
A woman cannot orgasm more than once: A woman can have multiple orgasms in a session. Some women may get sore or uncomfortable after one orgasm, but they will let you know if that’s the case.
Pussy smells like fish: Although I myself have encountered some smelly pussies (on rare occasions) in the past, it never smells like fish. At first I was weirded out by the smell (limiting belief from society influence), but you get used to it if you tell yourself it’s amazing. I’ve eaten out some amazing pussies and would not hesitate to do so again.

The Ultimate Guide to Oral Sex on a Woman

I’ve noticed that women become extremely horny if not their horniest after a good pussy eating session. They’re the wettest and most submissive. There’s only an upside for you if you do this before fucking the shit out of her.

Remember. 90% of men really suck in bed and are quite selfish. (I’ve pulled those stats out of my ass but it’s just my experience that a lot of women have complained about their sex life.) If you give her oral and do it well, she is going to be hooked. This can greatly increase your chances of retention.

Not sure what the hell to do when eating pussy? Or just not confident you’re great at it? No worries. Just follow this guide and you’ll be golden.

Be sure to not read this with your parents in the room! So, above is a vagina. The clit is the area which looks like a hood. The hood will be different for every girls, so keep that it will not always look exactly like this. So too will be the sensitivity of her clit.

With that diagram out of the way, how do you give a girl amazing oral? Let’s break down my technique. Notice, I use a bit of a ladder here. I don’t rush into things. I take my time and tease her a lot, to get her super horny.

I usually start off with kissing her inner thighs after I’m done with giving a massage. I usually turn the girl around and get her to lay on her back, so I don’t have her asshole near my nose (as you would if she’s on her stomach). I take my sweet time here. Sometimes, when I haven’t given her a massage and we’re straight getting into sex, I take the pants off and kiss all over the legs going back and forth between the boy. Building a lot of anticipation is an essential part of eating a girl out
Regardless of whether she is wearing panties or not, I like to breath on the pussy and just look up at her. I do this at least 3 times very slowly. This makes girls go crazy and they actually try to push their hip towards you. This build even more anticipation
Next step I do is kiss around the pussy. The soft plushy part that’s outside the outer lip. I just kiss without my tongue being out. Start off very far from the pussy and get closer. Alternate with the distance around. All this while I push her legs wide. Girls love this move since it’s dominant.
Next, I continue kissing all over and around the labia. Still not with the tongue out. Once she’s breathing heavier and heavier, I head to the clit and kiss over it.
Next, the tongue comes out, I lick all over the labia, pussy and everywhere there except for the clit. This gets girls wet out of control, since they’re not really sure when you’re going for the clit but they’re anticipating it.
Next, I like to finally go to the opening and basically start fucking her with my tongue. Very slow at first but increasing the speed gradually. All this while opening the legs even wider
After doing this a bit, I start licking the entire pussy up and down for some time while holding the pussy with my two hands like I’m making a hollow spade with the pussy inside it. Think of it as if you’re slurping up a bowl.
And finally, I head to the clit. Remember, some girls have enlarged clits, others have quite small clits. Don’t worry though, the hood on top of the clit is very easy to find and you can focus your tongue here.
I usually make shapes around the clit. Triangles, circles, or just up and down. If you alternate between them, she’s going to love it. Remember, never ever bite the clit. It’s going to hurt her a lot, akin to the same feeling as a girl giving you a blowjob with teeth.
When it’s time to give most of your attention to her clit with the tongue, I use my left hand’s two fingers to pinch the skin above the clit and push it back. This exposes a more sensitive part of the clit and this should be the last part your tongue should give attention to in the sequence since this is what can/will be the reason for her to orgasm. I personally alternate the speeds and strokes of the tongue on the clit. Whereas if you use the same speed, it gets monotonous and there’s a high chance she won’t cum from that. You need to scramble her emotions/desire for you to make a girl cum.
Now, while I’m licking her clit, I put two fingers of my right hand inside the vaginal opening and do the “come hither” motion and also sometimes finger her inside and out. But be very careful with the inside out motion since it tends to dry up a lot of girls. This is similar to the motion I explain in our guide to making a woman squirt.
With all these deadly combinations and taking your sweet time, she is guaranteed to orgasm. It usually looks like the girl in the exorcist where the body stiffens and loosens up while she moans louder and breathes heavier and heavier. Once she orgasms, the clit is usually sensitive. So, don’t put too much pressure on it but just go back to the vaginal opening.
Go up to her, kiss her and tease her with the D. This is definitely going to give her an experience she will never forget.

Things to keep in mind and precautions to take

A) Hygiene: Make sure to brush your teeth beforehand. Cut your nails and clip them so they’re not sharp for when you finger her. If you have a beard, make sure it’s not scruffy. Have the room smelling nice and maybe even light up some scented candles. Definitely take a nice shower before all of this. And for god’s sake don’t use your teeth (although some girls maybe into that, but that’s the very minor exception).

B) Assurance: Some girls may be self conscious about how their vagina looks like/tastes like etc. So when you’re down there, make sure to tell her how amazing she tastes and let out moans here and there so you make her know that you’re enjoying it a lot. It will make her feel much better.

C) Slow the FUCK down: You need to go about this retardedly slow. Stop trying to rush to put your dick in her. Immerse yourself in her pleasure. Try to spend at least 20 minutes when you’re starting off with trying to learn how to get good at this.

D) Watch the spit: I’ve had girls complain that I spat a lot and that they were feeling like their ass was really wet from all the spit that came out of my mouth while I was eating her out. Make sure to slurp the spit back up whenever you think it’s getting too much. If it gets wet underneath her, just mover her ass in another place and restart.

E) Good hack to ED: Pussy Eating can be a good hack to Erectile Dysfunction. Especially if you take a lot of time for fore play and also, after just a few strokes of fucking you go back to eating pussy so that you don’t cum too fast/early. I personally don’t last that long with a new girl and now I almost always alternate between fucking and eating pussy.

Conclusion

The reason we post these guides is that as a better man, you should strive to be as good as possible at sex. Giving a woman a complete sexual experience includes lots of foreplay. It makes the overall sex more memorable and unique for her, especially since most guys are eager to just shove their cock inside of her.

If you can show you enjoy pleasing her and giving her a great sexual experience, it makes you different from most of the guys she’s fucked. Doubly so if you can make her cum. And by doing this, you greatly increase the chances you’ll retain her and see her a second time.

This guide, along with our other free materials on sex, are a great way to start leveling up your sex skills. But if you’re really serious about taking your sex game to the next level, our Online Dating Blueprint includes an entire bonus chapter just on eating pussy (and chapters of other content on leveling up your sex skills in bed).

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